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Question:

My Iranian friend told me that muta can be done without the permission of parents. Is that jaiz?

Answer:

If the girl is baaligh and mature, but a virgin, and her wali-e-shari’i (shari’i guardian) i.e. father or grand father is alive, then according to the researcher Shia jurists, permission of the wali-e-shari’i is necessary.
However, a girl can get married without the permission of wali-e-shari’i:

  1. If she is not a virgin but a divorcee or a widow
  2. If she is a virgin, but her wali-e-shari’i is not alive
And Allah Knows the Best!

2

Question:

Is it ok for a girl to tell a boy that she likes him? If not, what should she do if she has already told him?

Answer:

If the boy is that girl’s kufw (compatible to her) according to Islam and Shia Faith, then there seems no objection in expression of this fact as a result of which the two may get married. And Allah knows the Best and He is the Saviour!